When one door of happiness closes, another opens,
but often we look so long at the closed door
that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
-Helen Keller/Alexander Graham Bell
None of us is a stranger to change. Sometimes change is exciting and fun, but other times it can leave us yearning for the life we used to know. Especially at the beginning, it is hard to look past how the new situation is different or worse than the old situation to see the good points.
I'll share an example from my own life. I, myself, am in a position of transition. It's not that I've never been in one before--I've lived in cities thousands of miles from home--, but it has been a while.
I've recently moved from the tranquility of my childhood home in the suburbs to an apartment in the bustling city. It has been hard to look past the challenges that have come up: a long commute, getting lost in a maze of one-way streets, trouble parking, loud city sounds, the need for heightened security awareness, dust bunnies, less space...the list goes on.
But, living in the city is full of possibilities. It means restaurants and stores within walking distance; stimulation of all the senses; outdoor cafes with excellent eavesdropping; more nooks and crannies to explore; the possibility of meeting more young, creative people; more culture and entertainment; the opportunity to be fully independent again.
It's hard not to look at the red front door of my old home and not want to run back inside, but if I can allow myself to walk through this new door that has been opened for me and explore, I know that happiness and opportunity are not far.
The sooner we can direct our attention from the door that has closed behind us to the door that is welcoming us in, the sooner we can see the beauty that awaits.
